Conflicts I Had With My House Mates and How I Solve It!

Hey folks! Nahh we see againxD today October 30, i would like to share my story about my conflicts i had with my house mates and how i solve it. So living with roommates isn't always easy. Sharing a living space may be stressful and conflicts may arise. Sometimes situation that work at the beginning of the year become more difficult as the year goes on. It is perfectly normal to have house mate conflicts among college or university students. In fact in think, there is a great to be learned from handling a difficult situation maturely, respectfully and creatively. 

Firstly, I've never shared a room with anyone before. So it makes me feel less privacy to me. I like my own room without sharing with anyone haha. Maybe for me living with a roommate is obviously different from living with my family which i knew each other so well and i didn't have to think twice about it. Then suddenly i come to university and are expected to share hundred square feet of space with a total stranger who may have a totally different background, lifestyle and personal habits, HAHA it sounds little intimidating but i think it positively. 

Second conflicts which is i think the biggest area of roommate conflict is cleaning haha right folks? Yeahh seriously i may the kind of person who doesn't notice a mess until the files are buzzing and i can't find my desk beneath the junk haha but my roommate just be the opposite. Yeahh i did not like it when he remarked me, hehe my fault also, wakakak.

Third conflict i had which is food fight=='. When it comes to food, me and my housemate take turns buying the common items like eggs and milk. But lately i've noticed that he's been dipping into my personal items in the refrigerator==' errr how dare him. if you at my place what do you do?? Nahhh=='

HOW I SOLVE ????

So how i solve this problem ??? First i will talk to my roommate directly when something bothering me. If i dont tell my roommate that there is a problem i think he won't able to do anything about it==' . Maybe i should be honest because roommate conflicts will not be dissolved if one roommate is not being honest. I think chances are feelings will end up getting hurt as individuals discuss what bother between our. 

Advertisement Review !

Look at the above ads that we can found easily when we buy cigarette. This is an initiative by our government to prevent smoking habits among Malaysian and seriously i'm not smoking ok==' hahaha seriously ! blregh depends on you lah to trust or not ! haha btw yeahh we know, our government has spent million Ringgit to doing campaign to spread this awareness but somehow i think i doesn't work=='.

Why?? for me through this kind of method, it may resulted to a little proven effectiveness. Instead of making health campaigns more extreme, i think more sensitive adverts may be better at tackling important health issues and i think advertising on anti-smoking should more focus on sensitive adverts. A different form of shock can come from adverts that are more realistic and affect the viewer emotionally.

Free Topics to Post ??

Erm free topics to post ?? nk post ape erkk, ehh tercakap malay plak, wakakak...ok through this post, my lecturer said that we are free to post anything that we're wish to. So i don't know what should i supposed to write here, oh my god==' haha k joke erm should i write about myself? erm no, about my hobby? erm no==' about about about what? hah !  ok i am going to talk about my favourite movies ever ! .

Yeah i like to watch movies very much, especially i like foreign films rather than the local one==' blreghh hahaha don't misunderstanding we should support our local movie, errrrr==' ok back to my story, many people are attracted to different kind of movie but the best movie I've ever seen that atracted me with all kinds an emotion was Titanic. Everyone knows Titanic movie right? so no need to tell here what the movie is all about, haha. For sure Titanic got most of the Oscars for the best movie of the year and i think it really deserved with all the best characters and the best picture. But what is that, that really attracted me in the movie?? erm the first attraction because it is based on the true stories that really happen.

The plot was great and when i first heard about Titanic i wasn't that much interesting to see but when my friend told me what is it about i was so curious. Usually i dont like long movies but Titanic was different. The effects were truly amazing and they gave us a sense of actually being there and brought home how tragic the entire episode was. To see and hear those hundreds of people crying out while floating in water was the most emotional part of the movie for me. I dont like seeing death people, any ways if i know that is not truth or how people cry out for help, i was so into movie that i had emotion i could help those people but that was just in my mind==' haha btw yeahh i was so dissapointed that i cried at the end of the movie (SERIOUSLY FARIZUAN???==') because how nobody could help many people to survive and how one romantic story finished. Ok thats all from me, see u on the next post ! Daaaa=='

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What is Integrity and Ethics?

Integrity and ethics?? erm for me integrity is a professional and ethical manner regardless of whatever situation your faced with. In my mind, a person of integrity, they do not hide their reactions or opinions, for me they do not manipulate others through deception and they do not pretend.

While ethics in my opinion is a moral principles that we should adapt in our daily life. Its affect how people make decisions and lead their lives. Ethics is a requirement for human life. It is our means of deciding a course of action. Without it, our actions would be random and aimless.

Yeahh thats from my opinion, yeah i know, each person have different definition, well hopefully our life will be great, haha okbai.

My Plans In The Next 5 years

Hey guys! miss me ?? HahaxD , ok back to my caption, erm my plans in the next 5 years ?? For me making a 5 years is very helpful. However, it's hard to tell my life will be like 5 years from now because i still feel so young, lol hahaxD 5 years feels forever away. Yeahh i always think about how my life will be though.

Five years after graduated my degree in Islamic Banking, i plan to obtain a master's degree. Right now i'm really not sure what i really want to truly do for the rest of my life. After i finished my study, i'll find a better job and want to be a successful and rich so i can have all the good things in life. I want to be able to have a family without financial stress and worries and hopefully formed a strong relationship with my partner AKA my future wife, wakakakxD. At this time in my life, i'll have moved into my own house and already have my own car,omg haha. After getting comfortable in my career and if i feel that i'm financially stable i will think about a marriage, hahaha what ?? If marriage does happen, i feel that if my wife and i are both financially stable and secure in our careers that we can start talking about having children, haha.

Ok thats from me! see u on the next post!xD

My Strength and Weaknesses !

Hey folks ! i'm back !xD yeahh thanks again if u are waiting to read my entry long time(errrr==') ok back to my headline post, strength and weaknesses ??erm my strength are always be positive in thinking because i'll makes my self confidence level higher and i love learning new things, as strange as it may sound, my lover for learning is one of the greatest strengths. I actually enjoy studying and i love hearing new thoughts and different ideas from other people. Maybe i can adaptable to many working environments and places and achieve my goals!!

Next, i really have many weaknesses but in the answer, there didn't write any weaknesses. But i think my weaknesses is memory the thing. Because i am very forgetful so now i am training my memory skill. And now, i have more interest more thing then last year so i can remember thing more. I hope it will be better in future. Next, my weakness is in language learning and usage is participating in conversations. Yeah i'm too slow in processing what somebody says to me==' somehow, i seldom share anything with other people. I am the listening type and sometimes speaking out my thoughts come across to me as intimidating. Unless i am required to, i stay on the quite side during discussions. I am one of those people who fear failure and can feel miserable for an entire day from answering a question wrong. In addition, i will put me to pressure in order to complete the given work on time==' oh my god urgh, but somehow I want to learn how to take risks and start asking more questions instead of quietly hoping for other people to ask them for me. Yeahh that from me, enough for today entry, haha ok see u soon!