Hey folks! Nahh we see againxD today October 30, i would like to share my story about my conflicts i had with my house mates and how i solve it. So living with roommates isn't always easy. Sharing a living space may be stressful and conflicts may arise. Sometimes situation that work at the beginning of the year become more difficult as the year goes on. It is perfectly normal to have house mate conflicts among college or university students. In fact in think, there is a great to be learned from handling a difficult situation maturely, respectfully and creatively.
Firstly, I've never shared a room with anyone before. So it makes me feel less privacy to me. I like my own room without sharing with anyone haha. Maybe for me living with a roommate is obviously different from living with my family which i knew each other so well and i didn't have to think twice about it. Then suddenly i come to university and are expected to share hundred square feet of space with a total stranger who may have a totally different background, lifestyle and personal habits, HAHA it sounds little intimidating but i think it positively.
Second conflicts which is i think the biggest area of roommate conflict is cleaning haha right folks? Yeahh seriously i may the kind of person who doesn't notice a mess until the files are buzzing and i can't find my desk beneath the junk haha but my roommate just be the opposite. Yeahh i did not like it when he remarked me, hehe my fault also, wakakak.
Third conflict i had which is food fight=='. When it comes to food, me and my housemate take turns buying the common items like eggs and milk. But lately i've noticed that he's been dipping into my personal items in the refrigerator==' errr how dare him. if you at my place what do you do?? Nahhh=='
HOW I SOLVE ????
So how i solve this problem ??? First i will talk to my roommate directly when something bothering me. If i dont tell my roommate that there is a problem i think he won't able to do anything about it==' . Maybe i should be honest because roommate conflicts will not be dissolved if one roommate is not being honest. I think chances are feelings will end up getting hurt as individuals discuss what bother between our.
Conflicts also do happen if one do not play it role well
BalasPadam